DOING vs HAPPENING & CHOICE vs CHANCE

          We all sometimes or other have failed in some activities we aspired to do,what ever it may be. Consciously or UN-consciously we tend to accept the failure as our own responsibility or blame other and make ourselves belief that the event HAPPENED.In former case we accept the doer ship which in turn increases our responsibility and u tend to belief what is happening to u is by CHOICE.

             The other way round is u belief every thing is happening and u are a passive watcher then u tend to accept events as CHANCE.Well situation also play a big role.Suppose u ended up getting low score in semester and the reason was u cheated from a guy who knew nothing.Well here in this case the guy is responsible but u too are.So what should we do?? take responsibility or sit and watch let so called FATE take over.Now if u choose HAPPENING then u ought to lethargic.

            Years ago i was reading a book by Robin Sharma  and came across a principle known as FEEL GOOD PRINCIPLE.It states that what ever action we do is a consequence of this principle.Too simple we do things to be happy....it may be anything from bunking classes , playing ,eating ,dancing we do it because we feel good.RIGHT? then what should be the right way to consider events .I have a way ,don't know if its correct(based on this principle) .

            So,if u are thinking of PAST events then think of at as HAPPENING

and CHANCE.This is because when u accept it as happening u don't take any doer ship and by that wrong or correct u will never repent and be happy.Next for PRESENT events choose DOING because choosing HAPPENING may make u lazy dumb.u may end u saying why should i prepare for exams things are happening automatically.Next let future be a mix of both.

           The wise sees doing in happening,happening in doing.Are u confused?if yes then know confusion is inevitable in path of knowledge.Let confusion and doubt be there its a part,else if no then great go ahead apply these principle.Belief in doing and be happy.